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 How to Use An "Anchoring Reference" in Negotiations.

EXTRACTED FROM PODCAST EPISODE 19 - Michael Phillips

At The Negotiation Club we delve into the "Anchoring Reference" a game-changing negotiation tactic. Joined by expert Mike Phillips, we discuss how preemptive reference points influence decisions and perceptions, shaping the negotiation landscape.

Learn how to use this approach strategically while protecting your key variables.

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Anchoring Reference: A Safer Alternative to Traditional Anchoring in Negotiation

Anchoring is a widely recognised negotiation tactic, often described as making the first offer to set the tone for discussions. Traditional approaches suggest that the anchor—a proposed number—should be bold, even extreme, yet not so unrealistic as to disengage the other party. However, this common strategy comes with significant risks, especially when the market dynamics or the counterpart's expectations are not well understood.

This article introduces the "Anchoring Reference" as an alternative approach that mitigates these risks. By anchoring with a reference point rather than the actual variable being negotiated, negotiators maintain flexibility and reduce the likelihood of undermining their position.

 


The Problem with Anchoring Proposals

Traditional anchoring relies on using your proposal as the anchor, assuming it will pull the negotiation in your favour. While this can be effective, it also carries notable risks:

  1. Market Uncertainty: If you lack precise market knowledge, an extreme anchor might be perceived as unrealistic or uninformed.
  2. Future Movement Constraints: Starting with an extreme proposal can leave little room for adjustments without appearing to concede too much.
  3. Damaged Credibility: A poorly chosen anchor can erode trust, making the other party question your seriousness or expertise.

Example:

Imagine you're negotiating a consulting fee and open with a figure of £20,000, aiming to anchor high. If the market range is £10,000 to £15,000, your proposal might alienate the other party, who may view it as outlandish or dismiss you as unreasonable.

 


The "Anchoring Reference" Approach

The "Anchoring Reference" offers a safer way to influence perceptions without putting your actual proposal at risk. Instead of using your proposal as the anchor, you introduce a contextual reference point—something memorable yet distinct from the real variables being negotiated.

Why It Works:

  1. Reduces Risk: The reference is not tied to your actual offer, preserving your ability to adjust flexibly.
  2. Influences Perception: It still sets a cognitive anchor, subtly framing the discussion in your favour.
  3. Maintains Credibility: By avoiding overly aggressive proposals, you keep the negotiation collaborative.

How It Differs:

Unlike traditional anchoring, the "Anchoring Reference" separates the anchor from the variable being negotiated. This distinction protects your position while still leveraging cognitive bias to your advantage.

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Using the Anchoring Reference in Practice

 

Steps to Apply the Anchoring Reference:

  1. Introduce an Exaggerated Context: Provide a reference point that is extreme but clearly unrelated to your actual proposal.
    • “This solution won’t cost hundreds of thousands of pounds…”
  2. Transition to Your Proposal: After setting the reference, present your real number in a way that feels reasonable by comparison.
    • “…we’re offering it for £20,000.”

Example:

Negotiating a software license:

  • Reference: “Some enterprise solutions in this space can cost upwards of £500,000 annually.”
  • Proposal: “Our solution, tailored for your needs, comes in at £120,000 annually.”

The initial reference point frames your proposal as a cost-effective option, even if it is at the higher end of the client’s expectations.

How to Practice...

  1. Select Your Buyer Card or Seller Card with variables that match your desired challenge level.
  2. Assign an Observer who knows the tactic you are practicing.
  3. Time your negotiation for 4–6 minutes.
  4. Practice using the tactic at the right moments during the session.
  5. Observer provides feedback on when and how the tactic was used as well the overall impact on the negotiation.
  6. Reflect by spending 3–5 minutes discussing how the tactic influenced the negotiation.
  7. Repeat so everyone gets a chance to practice the tactic, observe, and negotiate.

 

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Advantages of Anchoring References

  1. Flexibility in Negotiation: By not tying the anchor to your actual position, you retain room to manoeuvre as the negotiation progresses.

  2. Mitigating Misjudgment: If the reference misses the mark, it’s easier to pivot without losing credibility, as the reference is not directly linked to your proposal.

  3. Enhanced Collaboration: Setting a reference keeps the tone professional and avoids the adversarial impression of an overly aggressive opening offer.


 

 

Counter-Tactics: Avoiding the Anchoring Reference Trap

Recognising when someone else uses an anchoring reference can help you maintain perspective and counter its influence:

  1. Question the Reference: Ask for clarification or context to undermine its perceived validity.
    • “How relevant is that example to our current situation?”
  2. Reframe the Discussion: Introduce your own reference to shift the anchor.
    • “While some solutions may cost £500,000, most providers in this space offer similar functionality for £100,000 or less.”
  3. Focus on Facts: Redirect attention to objective data or benchmarks.
    • “Let’s compare the value delivered against the industry standard.”

 

Case Study: Applying the Anchoring Reference

Scenario:

A vendor is negotiating with a procurement team for a long-term supply contract. The vendor’s actual target is £50 per unit, but they don’t know the buyer’s expected range.

Traditional Anchoring Risk:

Opening with £70 per unit might alienate the buyer if their expectation is closer to £40 per unit.

Anchoring Reference Strategy:

  • The vendor starts by saying: “In the past, we’ve seen contracts for this quality of product reach as high as £100 per unit.”
  • They then propose: “Our offer, based on volume discounts and tailored to your needs, is £50 per unit.”

The £100 reference frames £50 as a fair and reasonable midpoint, even if the buyer’s initial expectation was lower.


 

Conclusion: Anchoring with Precision and Purpose

The "Anchoring Reference" refines traditional anchoring tactics by introducing a safer, more strategic alternative. By separating the anchor from your actual variables, you can influence perceptions without risking credibility or negotiation flexibility. This approach protects your position while leveraging cognitive bias to guide discussions in your favour.

Negotiators who understand and practice the "Anchoring Reference" will find it to be a powerful addition to their toolkit. Combined with counter-tactics to defend against anchoring, it equips you to navigate even the most challenging negotiations effectively.

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1. Developing Intuition:

Repeated practice helps you develop a natural feel for when and how to build relationships, making it second nature.

2. Building Confidence:

Practicing in a safe environment boosts your confidence to employ these techniques in real-world situations.

3. Receiving Feedback:

Constructive feedback from peers and trainers helps refine your approach, ensuring you can build relationships effectively without compromising your negotiation goals.

4. Adapting to Situations:

Practice allows you to adapt your techniques to different scenarios and personalities, enhancing your flexibility and effectiveness.

Club Members Feedback Assessment:

During the club meeting a formal "Feedback Assessment Script" helps identify within the zoom transcript the feedback.  We can then use this with our AI to summarise the feedback helping to keep a record of the club members progress.

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Script:

  1. State your name.
  2. State the name of the negotiator you were observing.
  3. State the Technique being practiced and what you were specifically looking for.
  4. Explain what you observed and your specific feedback.
  5. Finally include a proposed "Level of Achievement" (Level 1, 2 or 3)

Each participant will be assessed on their ability to incorporate the designated tactic. Observers should use the following levels as a guideline:

Level 1

The participant recognises the tactic and attempts to apply it, though inconsistently.

Level 2

The participant integrates the tactic effectively into the negotiation, contributing to the discussion.

Level 3

The participant uses the tactic skilfully, influencing the negotiation outcome or advancing their position meaningfully.